Think of someone who is 100% player as the type of person who never pays for anything, forces the girl to pursue him, doesn't care about hurting her feelings, physical escalates quickly, presses hard for one night stands, etc. I don't mean player someone who lies to women and cheats on them, but someone who is good at attracting women and doesn't commit to serious relationships.

Think of someone who is 100% provider as someone who falls in love with a girl before they even kiss, can't get her out of his head, texting her non-stop, scared to make a move because he thinks "she isn't like that," pays for everything, etc.

For good sex, mental stimulation is a bigger factor than physical stimulation. This applies to men, but for women this is even more important. You should know enough about the female anatomy to understand how to physically stimulate her, but if you don't know how to mentally stimulate her she will feel like she is being worked on by her gynecologist. From a physical standpoint a rabbit vibrator is capable of doing most of what a man can and then some. However, any woman who has experienced good sex is going to know that doing this herself is not a substitute. The reason for this is that it isn't capable of stimulating her mentally.

Similarly, a guy is capable of picking up a fleshlight and some lube for somewhere between $50 and $100. From a physical standpoint this combination can bring you very close to a vagina or ass (I dare not say mouth until they add a tongue). However, it will not compare to the real thing.

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This blog is going to be dedicated to the things I have learned and will learn regarding women and sexuality in general. There will be many tidbits of information that I've learned from outside sources, friends, or my own experiences. Nothing in here should be taken as fact - I've had to sift through a lot of bullshit to get to the point I am at right now and I am sure that in 6 months from now even I will disagree with some of the things I've put in here. I think that as a community we could have some very interesting discussions if everyone remains respectful and open minded toward each other.